Here are the 21 rules of life that will help you all the time. Check this out…

1. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
2. Work at something you enjoy and that’s worthy of your time and talent.
3. Give people more than they expected and do it cheerfully.
4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
5. Be forgiving of yourself and others.
6. Be generous.
7. Have a grateful heart.
8. Persistence, persistence, persistence.
9. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.
10. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
11. Commit yourself to constant improvement.
12. Commit yourself to quality.
13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power of prestige, but on relationship with people you love and respect.
14. Be loyal.
15. Be honest.
16. Be a self-starter.
17. Be decisive even it means you’ll sometimes be wrong.
18. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
20. Take good care of those you love.
21. Don’t do anything that wouldn’t make your Momma proud.

Months ago, when I saw television, I saw this talk show discussing a topic that caught my point of interest. It was about virginity.

What is virginity? Virginity means that in the state of the Jungfrau. Virgin is attribute to men and women who have no experience of sex, or if they have, there is absence of penetration. In simple term, a young woman is innocent of the SEX-y world. I wondered why they argue about the matter. During this time I thought that this issue be tackled within the House is not on television. But over time, I came to realize that the show’s main goal was to open the minds of many on the various issues especially with virginity.

Virginity is important? It was a Philippine tradition that a woman must be a virgin until she marries. It is expected as a precious and sacred gift to her husband, because he as a symbol for purity. My mother once said that it is better to marry a woman as a young woman is a woman who is not. Others also think it is unacceptable, not as a young woman to marry before they consider, and the person as disgusting. Others also said that the impact on their social position in society. I asked myself a girl their opinion about one thing and for them to lose virginity is like losing a big part of it as a person. Did it mean that it is necessary that everyone must be virgins before marriage? Not really. She told us only that it is necessary, you should think before deciding to give it away and it is a must at the right time with the right person.

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Have you suffered a broken heart at any point in your life? These waves of intense pain, emptiness, sadness, anger, confusion, severity and low esteem?

Depending on the type of person you are and the situation, break-ups can be traumatic enough for your emotional and physical health. You can say that nobody ever died of a broken heart, but if you expect from a suffering, it certainly does not feel this way at least initially. Most people will tell you that you will get over it or you will meet someone else, but it seems easier said than done.

There are strategies to reduce the pain. Here are 20 steps that can help:
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